Religious Tolerance

Posted by Ben Hughes

I’m now in the middle of my holiday and have recently been to visit old university friends, one of whom we haven’t seen for nearly eight years. The time seems to go so quickly and we really should’ve met up before now, but living at different ends of the country it’s been too difficult.

Apart from that, I’ve been catching up on some writing (much needed after the last few months) and am slowly beginning to wind down in my first real break from work since Easter. But I’m also only just over a week away from starting back at work again so I know I won’t be able to relax completely now.

I wish I had more time for writing during my holidays and really had a lot planned but visiting friends and family has to take priority and soon took over. Thanks to my trusty laptop I can now work anywhere at any time, which is a huge relief compared to the old PC. Whatever did I do before laptops and wireless broadband? To sound like a complete techno geek with no life, it really has made things a lot easier and also means I can spend more time with my family. Just in time to go back to work.

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After moving house last summer, I was desperate to start work in the garden and create something for our son and dog to run around in and get some nice plants as well. In the occasional dry few hours since the late spring, I’ve been in the garden moving a lot of earth, digging things out and putting things in. We had some turf laid in the spring so it was about time I straightened the rest of the garden.

My dog broke her leg in April and that meant she needed a lot of care after (expensive) special orthopaedic surgery. Thankfully she’s doing well.

Her leg has healed well and we’ve now had her spayed as well just so she doesn’t have to go through the trauma of having puppies and we don’t have to go through the trauma of having the puppies – there’s no way I could sell any or give them away so it was more out of necessity than anything else.

Now I’m trying to spend as much time as possible with my family. My son starts nursery in a few weeks so it’s all change in our house – something he’s really looking forward to.

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I can’t believe it’s been so long, so I’m back posting articles again after what seems like ages of being too busy to think of anything. I’ve had a summer marking exams and trying to solve numerous problems with an online marking system, while desperately trying to meet my deadlines. Then it was marking exams at my school and trying to organise myself for the new school year.

It’s now over half way through my summer holiday and time seems to be moving so quickly. Why is it that time speeds up when we’re not at work and only goes at half speed when we are?

I’m still waiting for the great British summer to start and some nice, warm sunshine. But the rain has hardly stopped and it means we’re stuck indoors all the time – no good for anyone. At least it gives me a chance to catch up on some jobs around the home, those sorts of things which have been hanging on for ages and never seem to get done. The trouble is, now I’ve got time to do them, I just want to have a break from everything.

Best of all, I can catch up on some writing on these rainy days so keep your eyes open and start adding some comments. What would you like to see? Drop me an email and let me know.

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I was taking my dog for a walk through the local wood last week and we met a couple of women with another dog. The two dogs were running around and playing with each other, rolling on the floor and dashing backwards and forwards. Everything seemed lovely in the warm summer evening. Then suddenly I heard my Bessie yelping and screaming in pain. I ran over and she was lying on her side making the worst noise I’ve ever heard from an animal.

To cut a long story short, I took her to the emergency vet and eventually found out she’d broken her leg with one of the worst and most painful breaks she could’ve suffered. After spending a lot of money (and I’m talking thousands of pounds), she’s finally back home and on the way to a full recovery.

It’ been a difficult week, but at least she should be okay. There was talk of having to amputate her leg or even have her put down if things were that bad. We look at her now and think things could’ve been a lot worse. As bad as it sounds, having to remortgage maybe isn’t that bad after all.

Sometimes, it’s things like this which help put other things into perspective.

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Suddenly it’s the end of April and the year’s edging out of springtime and towards summer. Where has the last few months gone?

As you’ve probably seen, I haven’t updated this site for a while. What’s been happening? Well, it’s been a combination of things but hopefully I’m getting things back on track now.

I’ve never hidden the fact I don’t like my day job and I’ve been searching for new employment, so far unsuccessfully because of the lack of jobs in my area at the moment. But I’ve still be looking and filling in application forms as much as I can.

I also had a car crash a few weeks ago – nothing too bad but it was a bit of a shock, especially when I thought of what could’ve happened.

I took on some new writing work which took up a lot of time and to make everything worse, my puppy chewed through the lead of my laptop and the first replacement lead was faulty. I worked when I can on my old computer but it’s so slow I can hardly get it working most of the time.

All in all, it’s been one rollercoaster over the past couple of months. I’ve managed to write some articles and now all I need to do is upload them. So watch this space and email me with ideas and comments to help improve the site.

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I’m just coming to the end of another week off work and as usual I’ve probably been busier this week than I usually am. It’s been a week of seeing family, straightening my garden out and spending most of my time writing articles.

I say I’ve been straighten my garden out, but I really mean making a mess. Why do we have to make a mess before we make things tidier again? I’m now stuck with a garden of mud until some turf is put down again and my dog loves digging in the earth and getting muddy.

And why is it you can never get hold of workmen when you need to? It’s either them not turning up to give a quote or not turning up to do the work. Sometimes I think it would be quicker for me to do it all myself.

But at least I’m safe and my family’s safe; there are some things I take for granted and our safety is one of them. Read this week’s article and see how you would feel if you had death threats made against you because of your beliefs. It would certainly put my muddy back garden and missing workmen into perspective.

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Today has been my last day at work for over a week as I look forward to another week off work. In many ways, it seems as though it’s only been a short time since the last one, but the six weeks which are just coming to an end remind me that they don’t come around too quickly at all.

How many other jobs are people expected to put up with being shouted at, sworn at or assaulted on a daily basis? It’s no wonder so many people are leaving the teaching profession.

But then I don’t expect all schools are the same as the one I work at – and I don’t expect all school management teams would put up with pupils at their schools the way that mine do and refuse to do anything about it.

So if you disagree with something, are you the sort of person to speak out against it or just put up with it? And what if it threatened to cause a split in your whole organisation? It’s just this sort of thing which some Anglican Churches are doing after years of feeling ignored and sidelined. The future of the whole Church is now at risk – more because of itself than any outside influence. Read the article here.

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With just a week of work left until the holidays, it can’t come quick enough. A bit of peace and quiet, a bit of a life back and, hopefully a bit of time to relax.

One thing which is really starting to bug me at school is the moment is the complete lack of interest of some pupils in the life of others. It’s been the same old comments this week: why do we have to study religion? I don’t want to know about anyone else. I don’t care about anyone else. It’s the same old story. One girl even told me that in her four years at school, she’d only ever studied Muslims in RE and never once studied her own religion; but when I asked her what religion she is, she said she didn’t know but proudly announced she doesn’t believe in God anyway.

So who are the first ones to complain about prejudice and discrimination against them? The same people who give it out to others.

Somehow it wasn’t surprising when the anti-Archbishop of Canterbury comments started to hit the news. But it also makes me wonder how accepting these people are of other groups.

Read the article here and add your comments.

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I can’t believe that it’s February already and all those January blues are slowly fading away with Christmas seeming like a lifetime ago. The days are beginning to get lighter but now the weather in the UK is changing again – gales, rain and threats of snow, some of which has already fallen and caused problems in different parts of the country.

I went to one of my climate change group meetings this week and it’s amazing how quickly climate change is becoming such a major international issue. We’re running a series of local talks and I’m doing the first one on Transition Towns which is an idea to make communities more local and sustainable in economic and environmental terms.

Just as it appears as though the climate changing groups are lobbying for nothing, people are now suddenly taking notice. We’ve gone from a persecuted group to one which is still small but is slowly making ground as it looks as though we might be talking some sense after all.

Check out the discussion on the discussion board and add your comments.

Also have a look at this week’s article about religious discrimination in Armenia to see how people are still being persecuted for what they believe in.

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After a very difficult start to the week in which I really didn’t feel like bothering getting out of bed, my old dog died and now it’s suddenly the weekend again.

I don’t know what it was towards the end of last week but I was feeling quite melancholy and lethargic and was getting totally and utterly fed up with my day job. My feelings didn’t improve over the weekend and by the start of this week, I felt as though I’d finally had enough of it.

To make it worse, I had a phone call from my Mum to say that our dog had finally died after years of getting older, deafer and blinder. It didn’t make it much easier though, especially for my Mum.

So I was quite surprised when my week started picking up after that. Apart from the obligatory fight I had to break up at work it turned out to be quite a calm run down to the weekend. Long may it continue.

At least it seems to have been a bit of a calmer week that Tom Cruise’s one. His last seven days have seen him involved in more Scientology controversy. Read the article to find out more.